等不及要帶你們去看這世界

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Emily@UK - El looks after her little brother well

愛兒很會照顧弟弟!

 

朋友慶祝35歲生日,我們一群媽媽們一起出去吃晚餐,自從有小孩之後很愛這種只有大人的聚會,可以好好聊天講些有深度的話題,沒有被小孩干擾的顧慮,不必再假裝對卡通人物充滿興趣,甚至可以帶粗字地表達感受。
一個朋友說她和老公以前很愛旅行,但有兩個小孩之後,感嘆不能再像從前那樣參與有危險性的較刺激的活動,以防萬一小孩沒了母親。
我想,當了父母之後總會有這樣的遺憾,年輕時的願望還沒有達成,有了孩子之後不再能隨心所欲,下一個機會卻不知道得幾年以後。

我很幸運地已經旅遊過三十個國家,做了不少開眼界的事,看了不少令人驚艷的風光。
騎過駝鳥大象和駱駝,乘過快艇直升機滑翔翼,搭過熱氣球,看過各式各樣的地平線,也曾在滿天星斗下的非洲沙漠裡吃晚餐,玩過每一個迪士奈樂園。
因為旅遊,我的人生很是精彩,這一點我非常感謝我的父母,即便長大後和朋友們去自助旅行,我的娘親也總是非常支持與鼓勵,是那些經歷讓我開了眼界,開拓了心胸,學會適應,思考和接納。
正因為微見了這個世界的一角發現它是如此地令人興奮,讓我更期待愛兒和 Tiger 趕快長大,我等不及要帶他們去看這個世界,充滿驚奇和感動的世界。

朋友問我,那些我在旅途上做過的事之中,有哪些我想讓愛兒和 Tiger 也去經歷的?
我說,全部。如果我能帶著他們,把我去過的地方,經歷過的體驗,和他們一起都全部再來一遍,我會非常開心。
在旅遊這件事上,我期望自己能像我娘一樣,給我的孩子絕對的支持。

我八歲開始第一趟旅程的,現在憶起,更明白如何帶年幼的小旅行家們去體驗這個世界。
回想起我第一次出國是去日本北海道,小小年紀是不會記得所有細節的,例如旅館餐廳好壞,人文歷史建築,那是大人感興趣的事,對小孩來說那是無關緊要的。
讓我至今仍記憶鮮明的都是親身體驗,刺激感官,害怕擔心恐懼之後達成的喜悅,例如第一次滑雪。
我不是兒童心理專家,純粹是個人經驗,我想培養小旅行家的重點在於讓他們挑戰自己,在全然陌生的環境下做前所未見的事。

Emily@UK - Tiger 17 months old

Tiger 17個月大

 

我和 Steve 曾經討論過這個問題,我買車子房子都是夠大就好,買座豪宅讓人羨慕不是我想做的事。衣服日常用品等也不用貴,夠用好用就好,提個最新季限量發行的 Gucci 包讓人眼紅的感覺,還比不上好好讓人馬上兩節舒服。
但唯獨旅遊這件事,出了門就是要去體驗人生的,絕對不省,什麼特殊就玩什麼,什麼道地就吃什麼。我絕對不想為了省一點錢,搞得來了好像沒來,玩了好像沒玩似的。
每一趟旅遊都要值回票價,帶走的回憶和體驗要能讓我坐在搖椅上跟孫子和曾孫子講他們一輩子都聽不膩的故事的。

十歲吧。等愛兒滿十歲那一年,Tiger 也八歲了,到時候我們一起出門去看看這個世界,那些我看過了的,還沒看過的,都去看看吧。

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